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CHILDREN IN
WORSHIP
Lester Kamp
One
of our main goals in life is to help our children and other young
people to become Christians who are faithful to God's Word and active
in His kingdom, the church. We want to "bring them up in the
nurture and admonition of the Lord" (Eph 6:4). We want them
to know the joy of knowing, serving, and worshiping the Lord. Our
children should be taught why we worship, how we worship, and how
to make our worship most effective. Parents, grandparents, and friends
will be the most important influences on our young people in their
worship. Here are a few ideas that will
help us train
our children to be good worshiper.
1.
SET A GOOD EXAMPLE
Children need to see
your worship and the joy it brings to your life. You need to come
to the worship assemblies regularly with an attitude of joy and
anticipation-not with a sense of drudgery
or obligation.
You need to sing, bow in prayer, listen intently to the sermon,
give joyfully, and partake of the Lord's Supper meditatively. Children
will follow your example, so set the right kind.
2.
PREPARE THE CHILD
Before Sunday, talk
to your child about how to act in the assembly. Tell the child why
we pray, sing, give, partake of the Lord's Supper weekly, and listen
to a sermon. As you would in preparing him for school, make sure
the child gets enough rest the night before to be awake and alert
Sunday.
3.
INVOLVE THE CHILD
When singing, help him
locate the page of the song. With your finger on his book, point
to the words as we sing. Encourage your child to sing even though
he may not always sing the right words. When the sermon is delivered,
help the child locate the Scriptures cited and/or encourage him
to write them down. This impresses upon the child the importance
of paying attention. It also stresses that worship is active and
not passive.
4.
AVOID DISTURBANCES
Make sure that your
child has gone to the restroom and for a drink of water before the
worship service begins. Traffic in and out of the auditorium during
worship is both unnecessary (with but a few exceptions) and disruptive
to the worship of many.
5.
SIT UP TOWARD THE FRONT
Don't follow the natural
tendency to sit in the back so that the child does not disturb others.
Think positively. Sit close to the front so that your child can
see and hear what is happening. You'll be amazed at how much better
he will behave when you sit toward the front, and how much more
meaningful worship will be to you, too.
6.
FOLLOW THROUGH
Reinforce your child's
learning by discussing various aspects of the worship period afterwards.
7.
BE PATIENT
Children will not act
like adults, but with patience and love, they can be taught to love
God and worship Him from the heart.
This process will take
time, but it will be time well spent. The time to begin is now,
regardless of how young your child is.
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