Envy
and Inferiority
T I M F
O R L I N E S
One
of the most serious maladies afflicting the spiritual heart of man is that
of envy. Although we often speak of it in a light and even joking manner
(speaking of someone being "green with envy," for example), the Bible speaks
of it as sin. Consider the following. in Romans 1, when Paul tells of those
whom "God gave over to a reprobate mind" (v.28), he includes envy as one
of their sins (v.29). It is later catalogued as "a work of the flesh" (Gal.
5:21). James tells us that "where envy and strife (self-seeking) exist,
confusion and every evil work will be there- (James 3:16). Proverbs 14:30
describes the effect of envy as being "rottenness of the bones." Envy clearly
is a thing which God would have His people purge and keep from their lives.
We commit the sin of envy
when we feel badly because of the good fortune of another. To put it another
way, envy is simply a form of jealousy. Moreover, if we are honest, most
of us would have to admit that we have been guilty of it at one time or
another in our lives, even as Christians. Perhaps if we understood why
we have negative feelings when others prosper in various ways, we could
begin to deal more effectively with the sin of envy.
Most often when we feel a
tinge of jealousy, it is because someone among our peer group (those most
like ourselves) is blessed with some honor, opportunity of monetary advancement,
that we did not receive. When this happens, we begin to let the mind wander,
pondering the question of why the other person was blessed with something
of which we felt equally deserving. Next, we even begin to wonder if perhaps,
God actually favors the other person more than He favors us. After all,
aren't we equal in His sight'? Then, we may even "go the full nine yards"
and begin to feel inferior, sometimes to the point of thinking that God
is withholding His blessings from us for some reason. On and on we go
with such speculation, until we are locked into a pattern of envy.
There are, however, some things
we need to know about how God deals with us individually. First, God places
certain things into our care and stewardship based upon the talents and
abilities we have to handle those things (cf.
Matthew 25:14-15; 1 Cor. 10: 13). Secondly, just because God might seem
to bless one person more abundantly than another, it doesn't imply a difference
in the worth of one against the other (Acts 10:34). Third, if we approach
the subject honestly, most often we will see that we have not been blessed
less than others, but in different ways. If you notice that one person
seems to have more going for him in some areas than you do, it is most
likely also the case that the same is true of yourself when it comes to
other areas of life.
Finally, we must remember
that God deals with each of us, in many ways, on an individual basis (for
a good example of this, read and study John 21:18-22). We cannot afford
to go through life always expecting to have exactly the same opportunities
as everyone else, at exactly the same time. It is far better then, to
accept whatever God gives us, and determine to use it to His glory, and
not our own. After all, envy comes when we become more concerned with
exalting ourselves than exalting our Lord.
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