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Consistency & Happiness
"There
can be no happiness if the things we believe in are different from the
things we do."
Freya Stark
Sin alienates man from
God, man from man, and man from nature (Genesis 3:1-24) - and it also
alienates man from himself (Genesis 4:1-15). We cannot be happy if we
are not at peace within ourselves - and we cannot be at peace within ourselves
if our actions are out of harmony with our convictions. There is no more
miserable person than the one who is at odds with himself. There may be
many reasons why our practice is different from our principles: Hypocrisy
- Cowardice - Lack of will - Carelessness. But conflict between these
two is never a good thing. There are some things that simply must be kept
in harmony with our convictions if we hope to have any real happiness.
PLEASURES
Pleasure itself is a good thing, a gift of God - but, ironically, pleasure
can destroy the good life, if it is enjoyed at the expense of our principles.
Like many other inherently good things, pleasure can "breed worms
and stink" (Exodus 16:19-20). Pleasure ends up being what we want
it to be only if it is pursued within the boundaries of our accountability
to God (Ecclesiastes 11:9-10; 12:13-14). Our pleasure must be consistent
with our principles.
WORK
All of us have a work to do that is our life's work, whether it is a
paid "job" or not. Work may put us at odds with our convictions in many
ways: 1) The character of the work itself; 2) The people and situations
involved in our work; 3) Our conduct at work; 4) Our attitude about our
work. The person is a miserable person who, for whatever reason, leads
a double life as one person "on the job" and another "off the job." There
does not have to be a conflict between our "career" and our convictions.
Joseph (Genesis 41:37-45). Daniel (Daniel 6:1-5). Godliness does not impede
the progress of anyone who truly has what it takes to succeed. Our work
must be consistent with our character.
FRIENDS
The person who wishes to be godly and has as his companions those who
are ungodly is destroying himself. (Cf. Proverbs 13:20). If friends
who are at odds with our principles make it difficult to be happy, how
much more difficult must it be if our mate does not share our convictions.
On the other hand, there is no more happy person that the one whose friends
share his highest convictions (e.g. Philemon 4-7; 1 John 1:34).
Our friends must be consistent with our convictions.
SPEECH
We sometimes make polluted springs of ourselves by the way we talk (James
3:8-12). Ideally, the mouth confesses what the heart believes (Romans
10:9-10). It is an unhappy situation when the heart believes one thing,
but what comes out of the mouth is something else (e.g. John
12:42-43). We will be no happier than Peter if our speech denies the Lord
(Luke 22:54-62). Our words must be consistent with our heart.
WORSHIP
Nothing is more loathsome to God (or unpleasant to us) than hypocritical
worship. (Cf Isaiah 1: 10-15). If our worship is hypocritical,
the answer is not to quit worshiping, but to repent of our sin! (Cf
Isaiah 1: 16-18). Nothing is more joyous than sincere worship. (Cf
Psalms 122:1). Our worship must be consistent with our lifestyle.
CONSCIENCE
Perhaps the worst kind of misery is that which comes from disobeying
our conscience when our convictions tell us we ought to be obeying it.
Living against conscience is the path of sorrow - e.g. King Saul.
Living against conscience will destroy the conscience itself (I Timothy
4:2). A "good conscience" is a part of the blessedness of the gospel (I
Timothy 1:5). Our conduct must be consistent with our conscience.
There is more than one kind of hypocrite. One kind is wicked on the inside
but tries to appear righteous on the outside (Matt. 23:25-28). Another
kind has a basically good heart but fails to keep his actions "in sync"
with his convictions (Luke 22:54-62). This is a person whose actions are
bad even though his heart is good. Both types are acting "out of character"
and cannot be truly happy.
True peace of mind comes from: 1) Character based on true principles;
2) Conduct consistent with character. We need to remember who we are -
and be who we are! We need to do what we know to do (James 1:21-27; 4:17).
Rather than living a lie in any of the areas above, we need to be people
of "integrity," i.e. wholeness. The man who has no peace in himself
will hardly find it elsewhere. May we gather up our will and determine
to be the people we really want to be!
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