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Carrots,
Eggs and Coffee
Author Unknown
[via Springhead Messenger]
A daughter complained
to her father about her life, how things were so hard for her. She
didn't know how she was going to make it. She was tired of fighting
and struggling. It seemed as one problem was solved a new one arose.
Her father, a chef,
took her to the kitchen. He filled three pots with water and placed
each on a high fire. When the water came to a boil, he placed carrots
in one, in another eggs, and in the last ground coffee beans. Then
he let them sit and boil, without saying a word.
The daughter impatiently
waited, wondering what he was doing. After about twenty minutes
he got up and turned off the burners.
He placed the carrots
in a bowl. He dipped the eggs out and placed them in another bowl
Then he ladled the coffee out and put it in a third bowl. Finally,
turning to his daughter he asked "What do you see?"
"Just carrots, eggs
and coffee," she replied.
He brought her closer
and asked her to feel the carrots. She did. They were soft. He then
asked her to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell,
she observed the hard-boiled egg. Last, he asked her to sip the
coffee. She smiled, as she tasted the richness of it's flavor. Humbly,
she asked, "What does all this mean, Father?"
He explained, each
of the items had faced the same adversity, boiling water, but each
reacted differently. The carrots went in hard, strong, and unrelenting.
But after being subjected to the boiling water they became soft
and weak. The egg had been fragile, it's thin outer shell protecting
it's liquid interior. But, after sifting in the boiling water, it's
insides became hardened. The coffee beans were unique, instead of
changing, in reaction to the water, they instead changed the water!
"Which are you?"
he asked his daughter.
When adversity knocks
on your door, how do you respond? Are you a carrot, an egg, or a
coffee? Are you the carrot that seems hard, but with pain and adversity
you wilt become soft and lose your strength? Are you the egg which
starts off with a malleable heart, and a fluid spirit, but after
a breakup, death, divorce, layoff, or injury becomes hardened and
stiff? Your shell looks the same, but have you become bitter and
tough, with a dampened spirit and cold, cold heart ...?
Or... are you like
the Coffee Bean? The bean changes the hot water, the thing that's
bringing the pain...! When the water gets the hottest, it just tastes
better...! If you're like the bean, when things are at their worst,
you just get better and make things better all around you...! ❦
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