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Familiar, or Right?
Tim Forlines
When we try to teach others the word of God.
emphasizing His will concerning certain specific matters, we will,
in many cases, run into one recurring, very frustrating roadblock:
familiarity. It stands like a stone wall between the hearer and
the truth, and it obstructs the view with great effectiveness. People
tend to accept any number of things as right and proper for no other
reason than the fact that they have become familiar.
If you are a Christian who has done much personal
work at all. you know too well how this works. One way, is like
this: When trying to teach people about such things as the sin of
denominationalism (John 17:20-22, 1 Cor. 1: 10), singing in worship
to God without the unauthorized use of instruments (Eph. 5:19),
the truth concerning divorce and remarriage (Matt. 19:9). etc.,
very quickly we hear something to the effect of, "I just can
't see how that could be wrong." Not from the standpoint of
scripture do they argue, but from that of familiarity. Even though
it can be shown that God has always upheld marriage and deplored
divorce (Gen. 2:21-24: cf. Mt. 19:8), and that both denominationalism
and the use of instruments in worship are much newer than the practice
of the church in the New Testament, familiarity continues to prevail
over truth and reason. [Specific examples are numerous, those mentioned
above are commonly encountered in evangelism]
It's true -- let something stay around for a
few generations. and people accept it without question. When the
truth begins to come around, it just "doesn't seem like God
would condemn such things." Hence, tradition, and not truth,
becomes the measure of things.
Another way familiarity hinders the receipt of
the truth is in the realm of personal experience. Many folks, when
confronted with the biblical perspective on such things as dancing
and immodesty, (Gal. 5:19. KJV, "lasciviousness",
I Tim. 2:9-10), will defend such things, not on the basis of scripture,
but from the standpoint of personal, subjective experience. They've
always done these things without embarrassment; therefore. it is
difficult to see what can possibly be wrong with them. This is a
dangerous standard, however, because it says, in effect, "It
must not be wrong: after all, I do it, as do other good people I
know." This makes majority experience the rule of practice
rather than objective truth from God's word.
Of course, some things which are familiar
are also right -- not because they are familiar, but because they
are right according to God's unchanging standard. And we should
be thankful for those things we take for granted from experience
which also happen to be right. Concerning the other things however,
it is the practice of the world to circumvent truth in order to
justify the familiar (cf. Eph. 5:8-1 1), it should never
become the practice of Christians.
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