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Don't
Blame Me!
by Glen Young
A minister was making a wooden trellis
to support a climbing vine. As he was pounding away, he noticed
that a little boy
was watching him. The youngster didn't say a word, so the preacher
kept on working, thinking the lad would leave. But he didn't.
Pleased at the thought that his work was being admired, the
preacher finally said,, "Well, son, trying to pick up
some pointers on gardening?" "No," he replied. "I'm
just waiting to hear what a preacher says when he hits his
thumb with a hammer."
If a preacher hits his thumb with
a hammer, is he permitted to let fly vulgar expletives? As
a child, when something was
extremely irritating, someone would say, "That's enough
to make a preacher cuss!"
The thinking behind the statement
is that one is not responsible for their action if provoked
by an extremely irritating circumstance.
They plead, "I couldn't help myself!" The implication
is, "Don't blame me,, it isn't my fault!" Can mature
intelligent human beings excuse themselves from guilt because
the circumstance tempted them to sin?
Consider Adam's temptation and sin.
Paul tells us that "...
Adam was not beguiled, but the woman being beguiled hath fallen
into transgression: (I Timothy 2:14) Paul is teaching us that
Adam knew he was violating God's law but Eve was deceived into
believing the lie of the devil. This explains why Adam said, "...
The woman whom thou gavest to be with me, she gave me of the
tree, and I did eat" (Genesis 3:12) While Adam's declaration
to God was true, he could not use it to excuse himself from
having committed sin. Therefore, God pronounced punishment
upon him as He did upon the woman and the serpent.
Another example we should consider
is that of king Saul. God gave him mission to perform and
he disobeyed. When Samuel the
prophet/judge over Israel, confronted Saul, he first said "I
have performed the commandment of Jehovah And Samuel said,
What meaneth then this bleating of the sheep in mine ears,
and the lowing of the oxen which I hear? And Saul said, They
have brought there from the Amalekites: for the people spared
the best of the sheep and of the oxen, to sacrifice unto Jehovah
thy God, and the rest we have utterly destroyed. " (I
Samuel 15:13-15) Notice, king Saul said, "the people spared
the best of the sheep and of the oxen," hence, placing
the blame upon them. He continued to blame the people by saying, " ...
I have sinned, for I have transgressed the commandment of Jehovah,
and thy words, because I feared the people, and obeyed their
voice. " (I Samuel 15:24) Even when confessing his sin,
he attempted to excuse himself by saying his disobedience was
because he feared the people. God would have none of it. "And
Samuel said unto Saul, I will not return with thee; for thou
hast rejected the word of Jehovah, and Jehovah hath rejected
thee from being king over Israel. " (I Samuel 15:26)
There will, no doubt, be circumstances that will make it difficult
to continue to obey God. By engaging in sin, a loved one may
tempt us to sin. Those who have authority over us may tempt
us to sin by threats of retribution. However it makes no difference,
whether motivated by love or fear, there is no excuse for sin.
God will judge us based upon whether or not we have sinned,
not upon whether the circumstance was difficult.
When we sin, we need to be willing to accept personal., responsibility
for our action. We don't need to try to excuse ourselves by
blaming others or the circumstance that produced our sin. We
must simply admit to our sin and ask for forgiveness.
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