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Good
Sportsmanship
Scott McCown
A "Letter to the Editor" that appeared in the Daily
Mountain Eagle (Jasper, Alabama) on April 28, 2004, caught
my attention. The letter addressed the "Dear Citizens
of Alabama" and was from David C. Hendon, Principle of
Curry Middle School, Jasper, Alabama.
Mr. Hendon laments, "We
are seeing students make poor decisions about drugs, alcohol,
sex, and
other things. We teach
them character education . . . hoping to make (them) make good
decisions and . . . turn around and take them out of the places
in their lives where character and morals are taught."
The "places" he has reference to is Wednesday night "prayer
meeting or Bible study." What takes students away from
these spiritual activities are athletic events. Hendon specifically
mentions the Alabama High School Baseball Tournament, but other
sports and associated practices and events interfere with spirituality
just as much.
Recently, the Gospel
Advocate published an article by James Hayes of Joelton,
Tennessee on the same
topic. Hayes' article, "Sports
Crazed" (GA, May 2004, pp. 36-7) makes some observations
that are worthy of our consideration. His article provides
the foundation for the thoughts that follow.
Following sporting events and teams is a diversion for millions
of Americans. Spectator sports are a way for many of us to
relieve the stress of our daily work. Yet, in many ways sports
are to blame for much of our stress. We invest time and money
into following our favorite college, professional, and high
school team(s). We transport our children to and from practice
and games as participants and spectators. The excitement of
winning and the despair of losing affect the player and fan
alike.
Consider the following true accounts:
September 27, 2003. After Alabama loses to Arkansas in overtime
a father holds a 9mm pistol to his teenage son's forehead and
pulls the trigger. The son ducked and avoided injury.
October 22, 2003. After defeating Virginia Tech Hokies, West
Virginia students and fans tear down the goal posts and riot
in revelry as University Police spray the crowd with mace and
pepper in attempts to gain control of the situation.
October 6, 2003. Sports Illustrated publishes the article, "The
American Athlete Age 10: Time of Their Lives or Too Much Too
Soon?" This article relates how children are focusing
on one sport all year. Their parents are hoping to cash in
on the next superstar. These children often cry at practice
and games because of the pressure they feel from coaches
and parents.
Scripture plainly instructs parents of their responsibility
in raising children. In Scripture, emphasis is always on the
spiritual not the physical.
"Train up a child in the way he should go; even when
he is old he will not depart from it" Proverbs 22:6 (ESV).
"Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger; but
bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord" Ephesians
6:4 (ESV).
As parents we should – no MUST – teach our children
that Jesus and His church should have first place in their
lives, not sports. There is nothing wrong with sports or striving
for and receiving athletic prowess or scholarships. The harm
comes when such pursuits take precedence over serving Christ
and His body, the church. The apostle Paul observes," .
. . for while bodily training is of some value, godliness is
of value in every way, as it holds promise for the present
life and also for the life to come" 1 Timothy 4:8 (ESV).
Hayes asks, "Are we really training up a child in the
way he should go when we tell him that being absent from a
schedule ballgame is unacceptable, yet being absent from a
schedule worship service is completely reasonable?" Christian
parents and teenagers must make a conscious decision to attend
worship services over everything else.
The issue is simply
this. Will we as parents, players, and fans be willing to
say, "We will not let athletics obstruct
our view of an eternal home in heaven."? When we do, we
will begin to put all of life in proper perspective.
We can allow our children to participate in and excel at athletics.
They may even have the talent for scholarships. Yet, never
allow those activities to interfere with worship or spiritually
encouraging activities. If you are planning for athletics to
provide for college tuition, you may need to realize that few
high school athletes get full scholarships.
Therefore begin now to save for your child's college education,
and look for scholarships in other areas (academics, bands,
as well as community groups that sponsor scholarships). Most
importantly prepare yourself and your children for a spiritual
eternal home in heaven.
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