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Toward
More Effective Prayer
TIM FORLINES
Christians naturally have a great interest in the subject
of prayer. It is common for believers to confess some deficiency
in this area. Consider some suggestions which might help us
to have more effective prayer lives.
Some are concerned that their prayers
are too repetitious, mindful of Jesus' prohibition against
certain repetitions (cf. Matthew 6:7). The fact is, however, that Jesus was not condemning
all repetition. He said: “But when you pray, do not use
vain repetitions as the heathen do. For they think that they
will be heard for their many words”. Jesus was prohibiting
the ritualistic, formula-bound type of prayers being offered
by some, not repetitions of all kinds. In fact, there are some
things which we will repeatedly include in our petitions to
the Father (Luke 18:1-7). The factor determining the acceptability
of repetitions is whether they are sincere, or simply repetitive
formula, with no thought as to their content. To be fair, we
must admit that our public prayers stand a chance of falling
prey to this problem.
Another problem faced by praying disciples
is the tendency to let the mind wander during periods of
prayer. This causes
feelings of guilt and frustration. This tendency is present
more often during silent prayers, as opposed to spoken prayers.
Would it not be helpful then, when praying alone, to pray aloud,
just as one might converse with another? Read various passages
on prayer and notice how many times the prayers were spoken,
as suggested by such words as those of Matt. 26:39, where Jesus “prayed,
saying...."
There should be times of prayer where one can remove himself
from all other activity and distractions. It is proper, however,
to maintain a prayerful spirit which enables prayer in various
places and circumstances. Think of the numerous times each
day that we must simply wait, say, for traffic lights to change,
checkout lines to move along, etc. Most often, we pass this
time idly. Why not use such situations as occasions for silent,
thoughtful prayer? This is especially helpful when we think
of how overwhelmed we tend to become when we consider the many
things for which we need to pray.
Certainly more teaching is needed on this subject. I read
of one congregation recently which hosts a yearly prayer workshop
While this might at first strike us as odd, we might ask ourselves
what the difference would be between this and a workshop on
teaching, singing, preaching, parenting, etc. It might be very
helpful for congregation to concentrate on helping members
lead more vibrant, effective prayer lives.
Let us be conscious of our weaknesses
in this area, and be mindful of the effectiveness of prayer
(James 5:16). Most of
all, may we "pray without ceasing" (1 Thess. 5:17).
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