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I Want
A Church That Meets My Needs
by William Woodson
The statement made in the title is not only the desire of
many in the religious world, but it is becoming the philosophy
of many Christians, because many of us are seeking a religion
that "meets my needs." The phrase itself has virtually
become a new religious term. Many persons praise or blame a
particular congregation because it is or is not "meeting
my needs."
Let me hasten to say that if the phrase means that we need
to satisfy spiritual hunger, then it is a good expression,
for surely everyone ought to be in a Christian community where
his/her deepest spiritual longings are being addressed. The
voice of God needs to be heard through spiritual teaching,
and we need opportunities to serve, love, and to be called
to repentance.
But being a part of the church to some means reaching for
goals of "self-actualization." So if the church doesn't
fulfill certain expectations, wants and preferences, then they
must move on to another emotional department store with different
merchandise more appealing to their "tastes."
Sadly, and probably without realizing it, many congregations
have gotten into thinking that "we have to do all these
things and plan all the activities to meet people's needs so
they won't leave." Consequently, well meaning leaders
have turned God's church into a merchandising institution.
So we promote this program and that program for this group
and that group.
But, in my judgement, the system has become turned upside
down from the way God intended it to be. What ever happened
to the attitude in a Christian's heart of "I'd like to
be a part of this congregation because of what I can do to
meet its needs?" When are we most fulfilled? When our
needs are met? Or when we meet the needs of God's church on
this earth? We ought to be a part of a congregation not so
that our needs can be met, but rather so that we may best meet
the needs of God's work.
Christians need to recall the truth of the scriptures that
personal fulfillment is a great spiritual paradox. We are most
filled when we empty ourselves and be filled serving others.
Jesus taught us, "...whosoever will be great among you,
let him be your minister (servant) ... even as the Son of man
came not to be ministered unto, but to minister (serve)." (Matthew
20:26-28). Paul said of his own heart, "I am crucified
with Christ. Nevertheless I live; yet, not I, but Christ liveth
in me. And the life which I now live in the flesh I live by
the faith of the Son of God who loved me and gave himself for
me" (Galatians 2:20). And again, "I beseech you therefore
by the mercies of God that ye present your bodies a living
sacrifice, holy, acceptable to God which is your reasonable
service" (Romans 12:1). "Reasonable service" is
not being served (having your needs met), but serving (meeting
the needs of others). We need to relearn the axiom, "It
is more blessed to give than to receive" (Acts 20:35).
Let's not demand that God's church be a place where people
(leadership or membership) cater to our desires and preferences.
Let's turn it right-side up again and be a part of a congregation,
not for what it can do for us, but for what we can do for it!
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