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TACT
Charles C. Pugh III
Several years ago I read a story about a barber who wanted to do personal work for the Lord. He had heard his preacher say on Sunday that everyone should try to be a soul winner so he thought he would give it a try. On Monday morning a customer came into his barber shop for a shave. He sat down in the chair, and the barber lathered him up, and then went over to the comer where he began to sharpen the razor. He kept saying to himself, "I must! I must! I must!" He then went over to the customer and, with razor in hand and looking down into the customer's face, the barber asked, "Are you ready to die?" The man jumped out of the chair, ran out of the shop and down the street!
A lack of tact has often resulted in failure. Even the most earnest worker has difficulty overcoming a lack of tact We must not only be concerned with what we say but how we say it Paul wrote, "Walk in wisdom toward those who are outside...Let your speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt that you may know how you ought to answer each one" (Col.. 4:6). As we seek to reach people with the word of God, it is not enough to give the right answers to religious questions. We must also manifest concern with HOW we give the right answers. Isaiah wrote, "The Lord has given me the tongue of the learned that I might know how to speak a word in season to him that is weary" (Isa. 50:4). The gospel in the hands of a tactless Christian is like a bull in a china shop. We need more who are "wise as serpents and harmless as doves" (Matt. 10: 16).
THINGS NOT SEEN
(BY EVERYONE)
I SAW:
Three sisters at a restaurant taking a nursing home resident out to lunch; a boy mowing a widows' yard; a teacher spending hours preparing her classroom and materials for her Bible class; an older sister walking slowly across the hospital parking lot to make a visit; men and women sitting in a surgery waiting room for hours giving support to those who were hurting; a person driving 100 miles to take a brother or sister to a doctor appointment.
A hand reach out, full of large bills, given to someone who was having a really tough time; women sneaking into a home, leaving it spotlessly clean for a brother who was at the bedside of his sick wife; busy people who took time to watch a little league game because a child from the church wanted them to see him play; a man taking a little boy (who doesn't have a father) fishing.
I have seen Jesus my Lord. He is here in plain view!
-Author Unknown
PEER PRESSURE
via The Wall Street Journal
Submit to pressure from peers and you move down to their level.
Speak up for your own beliefs and you invite them up to your level.
If you move with the crowd, you will get no further than the crowd.
When 40 million people believe in a dumb idea, it is still a dumb idea.
Simply swimming with the tide gets you nowhere.
So if you believe in something that is good, honest, and right— stand up for it.
Maybe your peers will get smart and drift your way. |
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