February 4, 2007 |
Volume XXVI - Number 5 |
Handling Our Anger
Richard Mansel
Imagine that you have spent all day cleaning your house for an important dinner party and you have everything spotless just minutes before your guests are to arrive. Then you hear in the kitchen the sound of tiny feet and see that your three-year-old has tracked mud all over the kitchen tile. You explode. What happens next is anger. It can become, as someone has written, a wild dog that can be tamed for a while but then we can unleash it and no one is immune to its fury.
Few things can tear apart the fabric of a family like anger. It has led many to divorce court, permanent alienation and even incarceration. How many relatives have not spoken to one another for years because of anger? The pain is pervasive throughout our society. We must deal with anger or its ravages will consume us.
There are four ways that we can deal with anger.
First, we can repress it. Denial, however, is a dangerous practice because we do not always know when the kettle will blow. A basketball held under water will suddenly pop to the surface and splash water on everyone around. Repressed anger can have similar results.
Second, we can ignore our anger and pretend it does not exist. Unresolved anger, however, just sits in our hearts and eats away at us and often gives us a cruel, bitter nature.
Third, we can unleash it on whoever happens to be there at the time. Graveyards are filled " with the victims of this approach.
Finally, we can learn the message of Scripture on how to resolve anger. "A fool uttereth all his mind: but a wise man keepeth it in till afterwards" (Proverbs 29:11).
"Be ye angry, and sin not: let not the sun go down upon your wrath ... Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice: And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you" (Ephesians 4:26,31,32).
This is the way to deal with anger. Is not life too short to lose a loved one because of anger? We must control anger or it will control us.❦
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Youth Fellowship Ladies’ Meeting Tonight Baby Shower
The Pantry Guess Who’s Coming to Dinner
No action is made righteous by the number that do it. Sin is sin, error is error, and wrong is wrong, regardless of how many engage in it. All the people of the world were engaged in sinful living prior to the flood except Noah and his family. But that didn't make wickedness the proper course of life. (Genesis 6:1-12)
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TODAY'S SERMONS
AM:"What Is Your Master?" PM: "The High Cost of Bad Decisions" PRAYER LIST
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Our hearts go out in deepest sympathy to Robin and Howard Johnson and family in the passing of Robin’s mother, Dorothy Givens, this past Wednesday, January 31, after an extended illness. Keep the Johnson family in your prayers.
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The pantry item for this week will be canned meats. Please help us keep the pantry stocked for those occasions when there is a need.
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