November 15, 2009
Volume XXVIII - Number 46

Straightforwardness
Chris Steele

According to reports, before 9/11 there was of some criticism of some Washington spokesman for the straightforward and blunt way in which he presented information to the public. The press corps said he was "crass and arrogant." After 9/11 and the early years of the war in Afghanistan and Iraq, they actually looked forward to the press conferences. Later a commentator said, "There is a softer, kinder language needed during peace time, but during war time people expect bluntness and straightforwardness.."

Some things just need to be plainly spoken. Situations that are critical and time sensitive need a degree of bluntness, and above all, straightforwardness. Decisions need to be made. We need to know the facts, and we need to know right now!

It is very interesting to see "straightforwardness" and "bluntness" in a thesaurus (dictionary of synonyms and antonyms). Both appear under the two main entries of candor and honesty. Synonyms under candor include: directness, fairness, forthrightness, frankness, honesty, impartiality, truthfulness, and uprightness. Antonyms listed are: deception, falsehood, guile, and lying. Among the synonyms for honesty are: confidence, conscientiousness, equity, fairness, faithfulness, fidelity, frankness, genuineness, goodness, honor, and integrity. The antonyms listed are: cheating, deceit, dishonesty, fraud, and treachery.

Sometimes people get the idea that it is better not to tell people what they really need to know, because it might offend them, or they may get upset, or reject us. This is not Biblical. It is not what Jesus and his apostles practiced. God's true prophets of the past were warned about getting caught up in such things (Isa. 30:10).

When we try to make things seem better than they are, we are stretching the truth and being dishonest. When we conceal certain facts, we are being deceitful as well. Paul identified those who, "by good words and fair speeches deceive the hearts of the simple" (Rom. 16:18). Do not be mislead into thinking that we are making a contrast in attitudes here. Being straightforward is not being unkind. Speaking the truth in love (Eph. 4:15; cf. 4:25-32) should always be our underlying motive. The way we present the truth must be patterned after Christ. What we present must be also after Jesus' example. When people went away because of his "hard sayings," he did not stop saying them (John 6:60ff). Paul did not change his preaching even if some may have thought he was their enemy for speaking the truth (Gal. 4:16). He warned Timothy to continue preaching the truth in spite of those who wanted their ears scratched (2 Tim. 4:2-5).

Unfortunately, we are living in times where many do not want to hear the straightforward preaching and teaching of the Bible that once characterized the churches of Christ. Regardless, we must continue to speak honestly, fairly, and truthfully. We must remain faithful to God's word, and impartial and direct with the folks who need to hear it.


Third Sunday Singing
The area Third Sunday Singing will be hosted by the North Lakeland church of Christ TODAY at 3 pm. All are invited to attend.

Men's Breakfast
The regular monthly Men's Breakfast will be held at the North Jackson church of Christ in Bartow, NEXT Saturday (21st) at 8 am. There is a sign-up sheet in the foyer for those who plan to attend.

Annual Senior Dinner
Make a note that, our annual Senior Dinner has been scheduled for Sunday the 6th of December after the a.m. service. If you have any questions see Tammi Paye.

A Request
Mona Howard's daughter called and asked if more people could come visit Mona. She is pretty lonely and depressed. One grunt means "yes" and two grunts mean "no". She loves to laugh. Mona is at Springlake Nursing and Rehab in Winter Haven.

Pantry Update!
Last Thursday, we had 41 people to show and fed 125. We need:

    • Macaroni & Cheese
    • Tuna
    • Green Beans
    • Corn
    • Peanut Butter
    • Pork & Beans
    • Raimen Noodles

Paper Bags
It has been requested that those who shop for groceries at Publix (or any place that gives you the option) to please request paper bags instead of plastic. We can use your paper bags in our food distribution program.

TODAY'S SERMONS

AM:  "To Be Announced"

PM: "Parental Responsibilities"
(Luke 2:52 and 1 Timothy 5:8)
JACKIE STEARSMAN

PRAYER LIST

Evelyn Haiflich, Micky Bell, Barbara Deel,
Lucy Blackman, Heidi West, Haskel DeBord,
Teresa Phillips, Lynda Waters,
Chris Everling, Phyllis Winans,
Wanda Greene, Mary Joens,
Luther Pendergrass, Minnie Lee Stout,
Jonathon DeWalt, Riley Parker,
Vivian Bently, Zach Mathis

– Shut Ins –
Pansy Sims, Ken Skinner, Robert Cox,
John Baker, Frances Black,
Mattie Hughs

– In The Nursing Homes –
Mona Howard (Springlake),
Jim Huggins (A,dale Oaks)